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100 North Main Street
Massena, NY 13662
Phone: (315) 769-3579
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Sheila Bordeau

Sheila A. Bordeau

Tuesday, May 18th, 1954 - Friday, January 3rd, 2020
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WATERTOWN – Sheila A. Bordeau, a loving wife and mother, passed away peacefully, surrounded by her loving family, after a six week battle with a rare form of cancer, on January 3, 2020 at 10:25 PM at the at age of 65 in the New York Presbyterian/Columbia University Medical Center in New York City.

Sheila was born to the late Edward and Agnes (McGee) Durgan on May 18, 1954 in Malone, New York. From thereon, she received her GED and went on to achieve her two-year degree in Child Care and Development. She married the loved of her life, Bucky J. Bordeau, on August 18, 1990. She was his Angel from that day on and they were blessed with three children, Brittney A. Bordeau, Stephanie Delaney, and Bucky J. Bordeau, Jr. and a daughter from a previous marriage, Kimberly Myatt. She was a stay at home mom after her three children were born and she loved being there for them.

She loved life and her hobbies were watching HGTV, thrift shopping, going to her Aunt Barb and Uncle Doug’s cottage, hanging out with her daughter, Stephanie and son-in-law, Justin, and being at home with her husband and dogs, who were her life once the children grew up.

She is survived by her loving husband and friend, Bucky J. Bordeau, Sr.; her daughters and their husbands, Kimberly (Matt) Myatt, Brittany A. Bordeau and Gabriel Cleveland, and Stephanie (Justin) Delaney; her son, Bucky J. Bordeau, Jr. and his partner, Tirzah Smith; her husband’s parents, Sheila A. and William P. Ayotte; her husband’s aunt and uncle, Barbara J. and Douglas Caruso; three brothers and three sisters; and many nieces and nephews.

In addition to her parents, she was predeceased by her granddaughter, Kitara Myatt; a brother, Carl Durgan; and a sister, Valerie Bush.

Friends may call Thursday 1-3:00 PM at the Donaldson Funeral Home, 100 N. Main Street, Massena, where funeral services will be held at 3:00 PM. Burial will be in the spring in Calvary Cemetery, Massena.

In lieu of flowers, those wishing may consider donations to the American Cancer Society to assist individuals and their families in the fight with rare Peritoneal Mesothelioma Cancer.
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  • Visitation

    Thursday, January 9th, 2020 | 1:00pm - 3:00pm
    Thursday, January 9th, 2020 1:00pm - 3:00pm
    Donaldson Funeral Home
    100 North Main Street
    MASSENA, NY 13662
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  • Service

    Thursday, January 9th, 2020 | 3:00pm
    Thursday, January 9th, 2020 3:00pm
    Donaldson Funeral Home
    100 North Main Street
    MASSENA, NY 13662
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  • Interment

    Calvary Cemetery
    Maple Street
    MASSENA, NY 13662
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MaryChris Jones

Posted at 09:08am
Dear Bordeau family,
I am so sorry for the loss of your mother and wife. I pray she Rest In Peace.

MaryChris Jones
Clarkson university.

Anthony Major

Posted at 04:50pm
Bucky Sr. And family.... please accept our deepest condolences for you families loss...very sincerely, Tony and Diane Major

Marty Smith

Posted at 10:36am
Bucky and Tirzah - Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Please accept our deepest and heartfelt condolences.

Marty and Melanie Smith

Eric and Lynn Lowe

Posted at 11:50am
We are so sorry. We are thinking of you. Sent with love and caring thoughts.
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Posted at 07:12pm
Our hearts go out to all of your family. Wishing you find feelings of comfort, moments of peace, and memories of joy during this difficult time.
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